On marriage
Traditional marriage, gay marriage, group marriage and single friends living together
Marriage is a holy cross that either brings extraordinary happiness or extraordinary misery. Life on earth, being a free choice by election to come here, should be a joyful adventure. Who invented marriage? It was originally about power of uniting royal families and inheriting property or maintaining certain blood lines. In a democracy none of that seems very important as compared to having a free spirit. It’s my opinion that marriage should be dropped entirely and that something like a declaration of devotion should be substituted when a person is locked into an impossible circumstance, it may bring out the saint in them or the beast or violent spirit in them.
If you got rid of “until death do us part” you would get rid of the option to kill in order to create separation. A declaration of devotion would give you some slack in terms of the way you agree to solve problems or invest in creative endeavors, such as having children.
It would be easy for a group of five people for instance to agree on being parents for two children. You could almost afford it under those circumstances. Many children like me lose a parent or two...a devastating experience to say the least. You are sure that God has deserted you and mankind sees you, for the most part, as a potential burden of some kind. Half the world is facing one parent or no parent circumstances.
It takes five adults to run a farm. Hey there folks I hear you always talking about wanting chickens in the back yard…well now's the time to change the rules and get back to homogenizing your lifestyles instead of separating the cream from the milk. Cows are really sweet and pigs don’t really smell at all and fresh eggs really taste good.
Love is the answer!
Try it! I’m sure you’ll like it…I did.
PS: I will be talking about a way to understand and participate in family life… whether it’s all girls, all men, all mixed or all just happy come and go lucky.
Some of my friends up here will be joining you in spirit down there. If there’s one thing you learn up here it is how to be understanding. We are all in full realization up here and extend our spiritual energies far out into the universe, which of course includes our home on the earth.
Happy Landing
Jimmy
Here is a marriage proposal from my friend Paracelsus
Paracelsian Marriage or Partnership Vows
to
A Lovely Lady
Pregnant or not yet pregnant
Wife of mine of many days and nights of grand alliances and passionate pursuits-
Be it known that I am all that you could desire in your soon to become wedded life!
Never for a moment from the time I lay my head upon your breast has your fragrances, your eyes so bright, the turn of your check left my memory, nor will it, be it forever in my heart.
I wish to be a man that in every way you could live for and if necessary, a man you could die with.
For whoever really knows how long such great gifts can be enjoyed.
Therefore, I pledge that I shall father all your children and care for you and they in every way possible. And should some turn of fate, war or an unexpected onslaught of worthless men, conquer our land, I shall still father your children, even if their eyes are not mine, their color some hue I have never seen, their hair golden when mine is brown. No man shall ever outshine me in your eyes.
Devotion is my only purpose and I Shall honor our love and our dreams and intentions until I die.
If I should fail at this, I should cheat myself of all the beauty I see before me.
PARACELSUS
1996